My wife is my dive tender. When we go down to NC she gets up with me @ 0600 helps me load the car, goes to the dock helps me unload the car and bring the gear on the boat. Then she helps get everything sorted out. We go have a quick breakfast she drives me back to the dock. She goes to the beach which she loves and I detest or to the art galleries ect. She knows more about diving and diving gear then most divers. The people on the boat ask me why she's not diving today. When they are told she isn't a diver at all they're shocked! Get her involved somehow.